Great question. When setting goals, the most important thing is how you would like to be feeling once the goal is reached. Your thoughts, feelings, instincts and desires will bring you to people and experiences to match up with your feelings.
Use suggestions of specific physical things to generate the feelings to make it more real for you.
Quick steps to setting goals:
1. Fast forward in your mind a couple months, a year, or 10 years from now—whatever seems appropriate for you. Ask yourself what feelings you would like to be feeling from that place…. start to imagine what your life would look like when you’re there.
2. Next, present suggestions to yourself: Maybe you are in a relationship, maybe you’re married, maybe you moved into a house with your spouse…what would it feel like when all those things have already taken place.
3. Setting goals in this way can be used in all areas of your life. Just remember that the main goal is never the physical things, it’s the feeling you would like to be feeling.
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