There is ALWAYS something to be grateful for in your now (your pet, pretty sweater you just bought two days ago, one close friend you have etc.). Seek and find those things, people, experiences to be grateful for, be it small or big, in your “current eyes” and allow yourself to feel grateful.
When you allow yourself to do this consistently, the magic you’ve been asking and waiting for begins to obviously show up at you doorstep or possibly by your window ;-)
This is The Secret to move forward in the direction you’d like to be heading and to clearly “hear” the directions to getting there. By Feeling you're “there” in your “here”, you’re already “there” and only then can you actually get there so much faster + you get to enjoy the journey along the way, and isn’t that the purpose of it all anyway?
So, to sum it up, seek and find what to be grateful for in your NOW and the clarity and motivation will follow to help you get whatever and/or whoever else it is you want.
If you would like to be guided by me personally, using this suggestion as well as other tools I have waiting for you, please feel free to contact me, I would love to hear from and about you!