That’s a great question! I want you to know that many times people think it is about the other person, however, it’s only a reflection of what is going on internally within you. Would you want to marry you at this point? All the thoughts and feelings that come up are part of your answer. You can write down your thoughts in a journal to really get a sense of what you are feeling. Now, they are not your feelings you are writing down; they are the feelings of your internal guidance.
First, do a self-check to determine if you see yourself married to the person you’re dating at this time. Fast forward in your mind five years from now consider what you would like to be feeling in a romantic relationship with your husband (even if its someone else), maybe you want to feel safe, secure, happy, settled in, in love, cared for, and/or respected. With that in mind, consider the following 2 steps to prepare you for that proposal.
Quick steps to receiving a marriage proposal:
1. With the information you have now, how would you feel if you were married to this person in five years? Can you imagine it? Can you see this person in your life? If yes, then it’s just about working through things in your life now that are holding you back from the full commitment.
2. If you can’t see this person in your life, then this relationship wouldn’t support you in feeling everything you just imagined feeling five years from now.
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