Fantastic question! Self-love is the most important of all because you are with yourself at all times everywhere you go. Once you develop self-love, you will be able to share it with others as it will just be an extension of the love that you fill yourself up with.
Quick steps to loving yourself:
1. Start speaking to yourself as you would speak to a significant other in the ideal.
2. Praise yourself, flatter yourself, say that you love yourself.
3. Accept yourself for who you are and everything about you.
4. Give yourself positive feedback for everything that you do.
5. Get involved in activities and hobbies that you love.
Contact me to start you on a path of self-love in your life so you can be in a relationship that you are in love with.