Thank you for asking such a valuable question! Those who allow themselves to grasp the following will feel so much relief, wonderful ease and delicious clarity.
I’m glad you recognized that the relationship is most likely not the “problem,” and isn’t necessarily what is actually keeping you from being satisfied with your life. Sometimes we can spend so much effort, time and energy trying to “fix” the one thing that doesn’t need “fixing” at all. By doing that, we end up feeling exhausted, confused and all ready to give up.
All we actually have to do is address the root of the problem within ourselves by asking:
~ What does this relationship represent for me?
~ What does he/she make me think and feel?
And then hear and listen to our own answers.
Next, follow our GPS’s guidance as to what areas really require our attention (relationship, career, living situation, etc.)
So first, understand intellectually and emotionally what the relationship (in this case) makes you think and feel, and recognize that this is what you have been making your GPS feel, address (apologize) and redirect to what you’d like to make it feel instead, going forward.
I would love to help you get to the root of what is preventing you from feeling the satisfaction you deserve to feel and to help you live a highly satisfying life.
Contact me and let’s get started!