I’m so sorry that you’re feeling hopeless in the dating scene and that you feel like there is no one to date. You have come to the right place!
I want you to realize that looking out in the world around you you’re seeing all of your beliefs being supported. The world you see outside of you is a reflection of the beliefs you see inside you. When you shift what’s inside you—in this case all your beliefs and ideas around dating—you will see a different picture in the world around you.
Your thoughts, feelings, instincts and desires direct you to someone to show you how they are feeling with you in your relationship with them. You may think that there is no one to date, but that’s your thoughts, feelings, instincts and desires saying that they don’t have you to date because you’re dating someone without them. When you feel like you’re not in the same experience as the person you are dating, you’re not dating that person with your thoughts, feelings, instincts, and desires. All the feelings you mentioned above are how they are feeling with you currently in your relationship with them.
So quick steps how to move forward:
1. Date yourself! Go on coffee dates with yourself. Meditate to connect with yourself.
2. Get clear about the qualities and feelings you would like to be experiencing in a relationship.
3. Set an intention about the type of relationship you would like to be creating with yourself. You may notice negative things come up but those are all just past ways that you have treated yourself.
4. Apologize to yourself and focus on how you would like to be treating yourself going forward.
What you’re doing is creating the relationship you want to be in everyday and then a romantic relationship will mirror the relationship that you’re creating with yourself.
Start Now - You can start on this approach right away by writing a list of the qualities and feelings you would like to experience in a relationship.
I would be happy to go into more detail in a free session with you to give you clarity and a clear motivating direction to allow the most amazing relationship to be reflected in your experience. Thanks for reaching out! Wishing you a positive day!