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How can I be happier?

asked Jan 6, 2017
16060 PointsGold
How do you create happiness?  When you feel like things aren’t going your way, and life seems lifeless, filled with negativity and sadness, how can you be happy?  And when you feel like things are good, but not spectacularly amazing, how can you be happier?

Here are 5 powerful tips to help you choose happiness:

Tip #1:
Meditate.  Spend at least a few minutes every morning and every night simply sitting and focusing on the sensations of breathing, or walking back and forth across the room and focusing on the sensations of walking.  Whenever you notice that you’ve wandered from your point of focus, notice where you’ve wandered to and bring your attention back to your point of focus.  You’ll be more present to all of your experiences throughout the day and really be able to enjoy them to the fullest, and you’ll also sleep better at night, if you do this.  So you’ll actually be HERE to be happy!

Tip #2:
Focus On What You Want.  Give the majority of your attention to the experiences you like and want more of, and to the experiences you imagine and would really like to welcome into your life.  Acknowledge anything in your experience that isn’t what you want and redirect your attention to what you’d like instead of this.  Whatever you focus on, you will get, so focusing on what you want ensures that this is what you’ll be guided toward and end up with as a result of whatever actions you engage in.  And when you’re getting the experiences you actually want, you’ll be happier!

Tip #3:
Be Grateful.  Take at least a few minutes everyday to acknowledge a few things you’re grateful for.  By giving your attention to these and taking time to acknowledge them, you’re letting yourself and the world and everyone around you know that you’d like more of them.  So expressing gratitude leads to more reasons to express gratitude, which leads to happiness.

Tip #4:
Surround Yourself With Positivity.  Read, watch, and listen to positive, inspiring, uplifting books, articles, movies, videos, music, etc., and generally surround yourself with positive experiences.  This way, you’ll be focusing more on experiences you want than on experiences you don’t want; so you’ll end up noticing more positive experiences in your life in addition to welcoming in more positive experiences to notice!  And when you’re continually having positive, inspiring, uplifting experiences, you’re guaranteed to be happier.

Tip #5:
Do What Makes You Happy.  If you do what makes you happy, you’ll be happy.  How much more straightforward can this be?  Even if you have to really challenge yourself to find or remember things that make you happy, it’s worth the effort.  When you find or remember something, act on it.  You’ll be happier because of it.

Over many years of guiding others, I’ve helped many people create happiness and fulfillment—even when life seemed lifeless, disappointing, and sad, or when it just wasn’t everything they wanted it to be—using my Life Guidance System.  If you’d like help creating more happiness in your life, contact me for a Free 30-Minute Happiness Now Session, in which you’ll:

* Get completely clear about what you truly want in your life.

* Become aware of exactly what actually has been holding you back from getting everything you want up until now.

* Leave the session re-energized and inspired, with a renewed sense of happiness, and with clarity about the next steps you can take, beginning now, to get everything you want in your life, along with the motivation to take them.

Ready for a life filled with happiness?  Contact me now and let’s get started!
Jan 7, 2017
+5 Votes
220 PointsSilver
Reduce your anxieties by facing them. Meditation and developing a positive outlook will help.
Jan 6, 2017
+3 Votes
15520 PointsGold
Focus on what you do have, and not what you do not have.

Appreciation and Gratitude are the keys to happiness. Even when things are not going as well as you like think about all the blessing you have in your life. If you have hands, legs, can see, and can hear you are a walking million. People do not realize that not everyone has the gifts you have. Some people are blind, some cannot hear, some are paralyzed at the waist. They would kill to have what you have, but instead people focus on what is not going right for them.

Make a list of everything you are grateful for.

Also, focus on helping others instead of yourself. Helping other people will make you happier and feel good about yourself. Give charity, help someone pick up something that fell, help someone carry heavy things to their car, drive someone to a place they need to go. Whatever you can do to help.

If you would like coaching and accountability around this send me a message, I would be happy to help.
Jan 7, 2017
+3 Votes
4710 PointsGold
Hi. Happiness is not always what people think it is. You have to learn how to be grateful for what you have so you can make your way towards happiness.
Jul 27, 2017
0 Votes