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How can I feel comfortable with who I am and where I am on my journey without caring what others think about me?

asked Feb 12, 2017
5210 PointsGold
So, it all starts with how You feel about yourself; What it is you like and don’t like about yourself and why? What it is you feel others may be thinking about you? Whatever you think someone else is thinking about you is simply what you yourself feel about you and other people come to show you what your internal dynamics are with Yourself.

When you allow yourself to just be wherever you are and feel whatever you feel through the ups and downs, you can connect to the higher parts of yourself, appreciate and learn how to use those parts of you to love where you are and where you are headed.

I would love to help you explore the various parts of you and help you learn how to tap into, connect and reconnect with these unique, communicative parts of You. Contact me so you can easily discover the secrets already within you, waiting to be discovered by you.
Feb 12, 2017
+4 Votes
26660 PointsGold
This is a powerful question and one that most people have struggled with.  With my experience of over 11,000 hours in the classroom, training over 7,000 professionals. I have been asked this question many times.  I will draw from my experience as an insurance agent. I experienced working with many different cultures. I have learned that the one person that most people are concerned with is themselves. Many times when we ask the question, " What do they think of me?". Often times we are the only ones thinking of that question because the other person is thinking about themselves.  I have learned over many years of sales, teaching, and coaching people that there are 3 types of responses.

First, There will be people that WILL NOT like you!

This is a reality. As hard as it may be to swallow, it is true. The person has made a decision not to like you. There is nothing we can do to change it. This is 10% of the people we will encounter.

Second, There will be people that WILL like you!

This is easier to swallow. We like this! These people will always buy from you, they will always cooperate with you, and will be your "friend".  They may even "drive you crazy", but they will like you. This is also 10% of the people we encounter.

Third, There will be people that are NOT THINKING about you at all!

These people are not thinking about you. They are thinking about themselves and how you will impact them. This is 80% of the people we encounter. These people are asking the question " How will you impact their lives?" This is your opportunity to show them how much you care. They are interested in what you will do for them. This is your opportunity to show them.  

There will be some people who may not like you based on culture, gender, or age.  They are the 10%. These people, you can move on because there are many people who are out there asking for you. I use a motto that says"

SOME WILL, SOME WON"T, SO WHAT, NEXT!

Help the people who see your value, who know they have a need, and are willing to invest in their futures.  If you would like to learn more about how to impact more people, lets have a conversation!  We help people every day maximize their influence.
Feb 18, 2017
+2 Votes