I’m sorry that you’ve been feeling like dating is hard and a lot to handle. Let us uncover what is being said here in this question.
A few key points to recognize when you are dating someone:
It is like you are dating yourself. It is as if it is one continuous romantic conversation that you are having with yourself.
An excellent exercise is to write a list of what you are experiencing in your dating life that is hard. Now I want you to take this list and see how this is how you have been treating yourself. It is not you who finds dating hard, it is your thoughts, feelings, instincts and desires feeling that they are having a hard time dating you.
An immediate action you can do right now is apologize to them for making dating hard and focus on how you would like to make them feel going forward in your relationship with them.
Now, this is all just on the surface here. In a session, we would delve into what areas of your life you have been making it hard for your thoughts, feelings, instincts and desires to date you.
Contact me to help you understand the messages in your dating life to shift your feelings so being in a dating relationship is an easy, effortless and enjoyable experience for you.