I hear where you are coming from. Good news is I use the most amazing tools to help people create an ideal relationship with themselves and have all their relationships in their life support this. Now that being said, let's get you to a place of some quick clarity in your relationship with your partner. The feeling of being on the same page that you seek is ultimately the feeling of being on the same page your internal guidance system wants in its relationship with you. When you have clarity within yourself and are on the same page as yourself, your relationship with your partner will reflect this.
So here are some quick steps to start you on the track of creating clarity and alignment in your relationship with your internal guidance system. First, acknowledge to yourself that you haven’t been on the same page as yourself. If you know of any particular area where you haven’t been clear and on the same page as yourself, say this in your acknowledgment. Now, you can give a sincere apology to yourself and focus on the feeling you would like to be creating in your relationship with your internal guidance going forward. It might be helpful to write down different areas in your life where you are haven’t felt clarity and alignment. Now your feelings that arise indicate how your internal guidance is feeling with you. So you can at this point start to turn around to yourself and let your internal guidance system know what you would like to be experiencing in all those areas of your life going forward. Once you feel like you are on the same page as yourself, you will be on the same page as your partner as long as your partner is capable of reflecting this.
If you would like help delving deeper into those specific areas in your life where you haven’t felt like you are on the same page as your partner, I would be happy to set up a free consultation with you to start you on the path in your relationship with your internal guidance where you are on the same page in all areas of your life!