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What is the secret to find the right partner for life?

asked Jan 10, 2017
16060 PointsGold
How do you find the right partner for life?  It can feel sometimes like it’s impossible to find the right person or to know if it’s the right person even when you find him or her.  How do you find the person you want to be with for the rest of your life?

Fortunately, what you really want is actually possible and available to you.  You just need to know and apply some key ideas.

Here are 5 powerful tips to find the right partner for life:

Tip #1:
Imagine what it would be like to have found the right partner for life.  Let’s say it’s a year from now or whenever and you’ve already found the right person.  Or let’s say it’s twenty years from now and you’ve been having the most amazing relationship with this person for a long time now.  Imagine how you feel then in the ideal.  Perhaps you feel happy, excited, grateful, loved, in love, attracted, attractive, like you have the best partner ever, like you are the luckiest person in the world to be with this person, like you can talk about anything with this person, like you have someone to share your life with and grow with and create amazing experiences with, etc.  Once you step into these feelings, ask yourself what it feels right to do from this place, and act on this.  Acting from these feelings and letting them guide you will lead you to external support for these feelings, and ultimately to the right partner for you.  So step into these feelings for at least a couple of minutes every day; this way you’ll always be acting from them toward more reasons to experience them.

Tip #2:
Be the right partner for yourself.  Give yourself the kinds of positive attention you want to get from another person.  Be the kind of company, support, and companionship for yourself that you want in a partner.  Build the kind of relationship with yourself that you’d like to have with another person.  Treat yourself as you’d like to be treated.  Listen to what feels good and right for you and act on this and put what feels right above everyone and everything else.

Tip #3:
Get on the main highway of your life.  If you’re on a sidestreet of life, going a direction you don’t intend to be going for very long (with your career, health, and other areas of your life), you’re not going to meet anyone with whom your relationship will last for life.  If you’re going a direction you’d like to be going for a long time—perhaps even for the rest of your life—you can meet someone who is going that direction, too, and therefore you’ll be going the same direction and your relationship can last when you each just continue to do what’s good for yourselves in life.  So be true to yourself and pursue what really fulfills you.  Do what you’ve been wanting to do.  When you’re on track for your own life, you’ll meet someone who likes you this way, fits this, and supports this.

Tip #4:
Recognize that what you really want isn’t actually another person, but the feelings that you imagine you would have if you had another person in your life—excitement, connection, love, worthiness, value, etc.  And you can step into these feelings right now as you imagine them.  Then, if you do what feels right from this feeling place, you can attract the interest of the kind of person who actually supports you in feeling the ways you want to feel.

Tip #5:
Address anything you feel needs to happen before you meet the right person for the kind of relationship you really want.  This might mean taking actions (in terms of career, financial situation, body and health, family relationships, friendships, living situation, romantic relationship, or wherever else), or simply changing your beliefs about what needs to happen first.  Get yourself mentally, emotionally, and physically ready so that if you were to find the right person tomorrow or next week or next month or next year, you would feel totally ready for this, with no fear or anything else holding you back.  This way you’ll get out of your own way and let yourself find and identify the right partner for life for you.

Over many years of guiding others, I’ve helped many people bring the right romantic partner into their lives using my Life Guidance System.  If you’d like help finding the right partner for life, contact me for a Free 30-Minute Find My Perfect Partner Now Session, in which you’ll:

* Get completely clear about what you truly want in a romantic partner and relationship.

* Become aware of exactly what actually has been holding you back from getting everything you want in a romantic relationship up until now.

* Leave the session re-energized and inspired, with clarity about the next steps that you can take, beginning now, to get everything you want in the area of romantic relationships.

Ready to find the right partner for life?  Contact me now and let’s get started making this happen!
Jan 10, 2017
+5 Votes
15520 PointsGold
A soul mate is a goal mate. Many people get into a relationship without understanding want you both want. You need to know what are your values, priorities, and goals in life. Once you know yours, find someone with the same values, goals, and priorities.
Jan 10, 2017
+3 Votes
4710 PointsGold
Hi. There is no right partner for life, but you will find a partner that is right for you. It takes serious work and dedication though. You have to be selfless and considerate, etc.
Jul 27, 2017
+1 Vote