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How can I be more attractive to my partner?

asked Jan 14, 2017
16060 PointsGold
If you’d like to be more attractive to your partner, aim to be more attractive to yourself.  Or, more importantly, make yourself feel more attractive to you.

When you want to be more attractive to another person, this is your own internal guidance saying to you that it wants to be more attractive to you.  This means you haven’t been focusing on what you want and listening to what feels good on the way there.  Considering this, here are some ways you can make yourself feel more attractive:

1) Spend some quality time with yourself.

Take time to meditate, to exercise, to prepare yourself a good meal, to read, to listen to yourself, to spend time with friends, and to do whatever else you’ve been wanting to be doing but haven’t gotten around to.

2) Do for yourself what you want your partner to do for you that would make you feel attractive to him/her.

Go on a date with yourself.  Do an activity that you enjoy.  Tell yourself that you love yourself.  Show yourself that you care about yourself.

3) Re-evaluate your priorities and consider how you might fill more of your time with whatever most excites you, interests you, and really, deeply fulfills you.

4) Do what you really want to do and not what you don’t want to do.

If you’re in a job that you don’t want to be in, imagine what it would be like to be in a job you love, ask yourself what feels good from this place, and pursue this.

If you’ve been wanting to lose weight or tone your body or improve your health, imagine what you would really like to feel about yourself, ask yourself what feels good to do from this place, and act on this.

If you have had issues with family, ask yourself what you’d really like to be feeling and act on whatever feels good once you’re feeling this.

If you’ve been wanting to pursue hobbies, imagine what that would feel like and pursue them.

If you’ve been wanting to spend time with friends, imagine what it would feel like actually to be doing this, and go do it.

5) Make yourself your highest priority.

If you are not your priority, you won’t be anyone’s priority.  So ask yourself what you’d like to feel about your life in the ideal, step into that feeling place, and always listen to and act on what feels right and good for you from there.

If you’d like some guidance putting these ideas into action and making yourself feel more attractive to yourself and to your partner, contact me now for a free session and we’ll get started right away!
Jan 14, 2017
+4 Votes
840 PointsSilver
Being attractive is a quality that comes from within. There are no particular features that make someone attractive or unattractive. Each person is attracted to different things and different qualities in a person.

The key is to be yourself. To enjoy being you. To embrace who you are and have fun being you. There is nothing more attractive than confidence. That confidence comes when you look within to find out more about you. This can be through self reflection and meditation.

Your true source is within you and when you let that shine through and release the barriers, it can be a very beautiful thing.

Fall in love with you first and find those traits that you love about yourself and you will find, the Universe will bring that special someone who loves you too.
Jan 16, 2017
+2 Votes
15520 PointsGold
1) Work on yourself. The more you work on bettering yourself my becoming more generous, friendlier, less angry, more humble, less argumentative, the more people will like you. Continuously try to become a better person.

2) Put in the effort. If you want your partner to be healthy, you should work on being healthy. If you want your partner to look sexy, you should work on looking more sexy. Dress well. Learn about style. Dress to impress.

3) Do not be needy. Give space to your partner and do not try to spend every second with them or wonder where they are all the time, or constantly texting them. Allow space for you both to do your own thing, be your own person, and allow to time to miss each other.
Jan 16, 2017
+2 Votes
4710 PointsGold
Hi. I actually bathe my husband to make sure he is cleaned up good. You have to be willing to let your partner control you some
Jul 27, 2017
+1 Vote