The heart ache that comes along with Change and Transformation at first is certainly unbearable.
Not an easy task to begin with, but like all things time helps this process get easier.
It’s just a matter of, are we up for the Challenge ahead of us?
Do we know what is to follow?
Do we understand what is happening and why it is happening?
Can we bear to stick to it? Or do we give up at the first obstacle?
It breaks my heart when I see the effort that some people put into changing themselves for the better, trying to Transform themselves, but others around them are not of Understanding or unable to Acknowledge the fact, or Recognize this process.
It is hard enough as it is, to step up make the decision and go through the process of Change and Transformation without having to have pettiness going on.
Unfortunately this is very hard to avoid, and one of the biggest challenges of the Transformational Period.
How do we go about Change, when others around us do not allow for our own Transformation?
When people see what they want to see from their own eyes and they portray you, and who they think you are and what you’re about through their eyes?
What do you do???
Do you try and justify yourself???
But why should you have to???
After All It Is Their Judgment of You...
If you know yourself, Your True Self Worth, Values and most of all your True Intentions, then it should not have to Matter!!!
Oh! But our inner voice does not seem to let things go, and we have and feel the need to justify ourselves...
The easiest thing to do is to sit there, back chatting, debating, justifying...
But is it the easiest thing???
Or do we make it harder and worsen things for ourselves, creating enemies...
Or giving people our friends, family more reason to add more oil to the fire by finding your best friend or their best friend and holding a negative bitter marathon conversation all in your name...
Wow! We are so privileged when that takes place... Hours and hours of our name been used.
Do we really want our name to be misused like that, maybe we should think twice before we react.
Otherwise the effect is truly damaging! All the bad energy forces coming together and taking affect...
Oh! Privileged one totally in your name!
The end RESULTS being...
Bitterness, Bitterness and More Bitterness on All Angles...
I believe, we are all better than that!
Much Better Than That!
So how do we avoid such unpleasant treatment?
Going on, what I have managed to achieve and of course making a constant everyday effort.
I always try to see further than what is happening at the given time...
I allow for all to be said...
Taking as much as I can with a brave face, I mean just how long can somebody sit there running you to the ground, they have got to stop at some point, don't they??? Here I smirk as I know some people just don't know when to stop...
The point is how much patience do you or I have to allow for them to unload. Me? I have found great patience over time.
One thing for sure I know, since I have been using this tactic for a few years now, it does get easier...
If you get to the deeper level of understanding and really want to understand know this that what most people are actually seeking is ATTENTION... They are craving for ACKNOWLEDGMENT and in need of a serious case of RECOGNITION on all levels.
This is a process which takes a while, meaning time to get a grip of, and having to learn to -
Conquer Our Emotions.
Why do I say this???
I am saying this as I am still working on it myself! Conquering Our Emotions needs everyday effort. Depending what our next challenge lying ahead is. Nobody knows the next challenge up ahead of them.
Just as you get over one challenge another one appears, so it is a constant everyday effort.
I have been working on it for a good 4 years now, so you can imagine the time frame taken to accomplish this.
How long you ask me?
Time frame is unknown! For sure it depends on how much personal time and effort you are willing to put in.
What means you use to accomplish Conquering Your Emotions? There are various different ways, and combinations.
It can all take place the minute you take the decision to make the Transformation.
So Hold On To Your Self Worth by Respecting Yourself and try using the Silence is Golden Rule.
True Transformation For Me Is Like Breaking In A Stallion.
Let True Transformation Begin and Evolve. It’s Up To You the Decision Is Yours!
Try Breaking In Yourselves First By Conquering Your Emotions! Be A True Stallion!
In Trust and Faith
Your Destiny Awaits You!