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All Is But A Matter Of Choice... posted Mar 15, 2018

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Over the years I have come to realize there were certain people in my life who brought the worst out in me, but they were there to help bring the best out in me... I still do have those type of people around me... We all have them... There are people that bring the best out in us, and there are people who bring the worst out in us...

If I Bring the worst out in someone it is because I am there to help them bring out the best in them selves as others helped me!

So I am truly grateful to those that brought the worst out in me because that helped towards bringing out the best in me...

By allowing room for change and letting all that happens be a lesson learned......

So It Is As Simple As I Get To Choose

To Bring The Worst Out In Me...

Or

I Get To Choose To Bring The Best Out In Me...

IT IS ALL BUT A MATTER OF CHOICE...

For Sure I Know It Is Not Easy!

As I Have Been Through The Process...

It Is A Humbling Experience ...
But Once Understood It Really Is For The Best...

So I Will Stick To What I Believe In...

In Trust and Faith...

Bringing Out The Best In People By Firstly Bringing Out The Best In Me...

HOW???

Unfortunately By Firstly Bringing Out The Worst In People...

People have a lot of anger, with them selves, with their families, with their environment, with God...
They hold on to this anger, they are near to suffocating them selves with it... They have a near explosive tendency... You can tell it's coming...

If you allow for the effect of the anger, then like a pressure cooker the steam will let loose and it won't explode unpredictably...

This is after closely observing people's behavior and time after time I see the defusing effect when you allow for someone to express them selves freely even if it hurts you, as it has hurt me many a time.

It is only then when the healing process begins...

It is an on going Process of Constant Effort!

It might seem like It's a lost battle at times!  We have to be persistant!  Persistant with our inner battle of emotions!  It is with our own self that we need to push on past and therefore forward for transformational change that will take place in sheer time!  Change that those around you will certainly see and acknowledge!  Some will let you know of the changes they see in you!  Others will show you in silence, but for sure you will know the changes have taken place! 

So Patience & Persistence is the key here!

Don't stop till you feel the change!

By Andrea Louca
Your Destiny Awaits You...

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