Dr. Debra LMFT (MT2416)
The Relationship Expert
Wow, that's a tough one. Have you talked to him or her about how the condition of his/her body is affecting your sexual desire? Or, have you talked about what is going on that he/she is not staying in shape. The latter might be the best place to begin, as you there may be something deeper (depression, sickness, etc.) going on and you don't want to appear as if you are are self-centered and inconsiderate.